The only thing I do differently than everyone else I know, is "re-examine" doctrine earlier than everyone else, and put it into practice immediately. I am already living as a (your denomination here) of the future. Think that's not true? Study your religion's past.
Don't put it off living your denomination's future yourself. Be an example to others, and start now. If the Pope can do it, SO CAN YOU! Mark my words, in 50, 100, 500 years, even the most homophobic church will have homosexual preachers standing at the pulpit or leading the entire church; probably even funding abortions. Think that applies to everyone but your church? Study your religion's past.
I'm already there. Won't you join me?